My ex husband died in July 2007. Since that time I have been trying to retrieve his ashes for my children who are all young adults. They are his sole heirs. He was cremated. He was living in Virginia at the time. A woman was living with him who has possession at this time. She now resides in Ma as well. His funeral was paid for by him. Three urns were created, one for his mother in Greece, one for me and one for her. She has cut off communication with the family and will not return the urn to my children. I don't know if this is criminal or small claims. I have called every person I could think of, written to bothe the Attorney General in Ma and Va and contacted the local police with no help. I simply don't knowwhat to do and this is very very important. This is their father.I just need direction.