My husband has filed for divorce and has retained an attorney. He is the part owner of a family business and has been the one to work outside of the house for over 14 years while I helped raise the kids. My question is, what should I be doing to help me figure out the asset division and make sure that I get a fair share. I'm concerned that, because I have not been involved with the financial end of our relationship, that my husband could hide things from me. Any ideas about this?