Just looking for another opinion on this. My divorce attorney keeps telling me I should consider comprising more on several sticking points with my soon to be ex-husband. I feel like I've already compromised and that my husband is being an ass, as usual. I know it will cost money but if we prevail on the issues involved then it seems like, in the long run, my kids and I will be better off. I know most divorces end with an agreement rather than a trial, but I feel like my lawyer is being a bit over-cautious. Any thoughts?
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Editor's Response
I know that you know that I am really not in a position to second guess your attorney. FYI, well over 90% of divorces in Massachusetts are accomplished by agreement, rather than by trial. The reasons for that are, I'm sure, clear to you. Not only does a trial (and the huge amount of preparation required before the trial) cost a lot of money, but a trial can be very draining, emotionally and physically, on the couple and on any children involved. From you attorney's perspective, a trial is not a terrible thing: It is an opportunity to make money doing what he or she does for a living. So . . . without knowing absolutely ANYTHING about your situation and the issues involved, I think you should consider why your attorney is asking you to compromise. If you don't know, or if you don't understand her position, ask her to explain. She is in a position to judge the legal issues, the likelihood of success, and the cost in an impartial and unemotional fashion. Take advantage of her expertise, and ask her to explain. Good luck. For more general information, visit our Massachusetts Divorce Law Discussion Forum.